well-fed, well-thought

sank, A-Rod and i had gone over to jason & azmi's for a barbecue last night.. jase was on a roll, making chicken in the smoker (with chiavetta marinade), beans & sausages, hot-dogs, mashed potatoes, creamed corn and vodka-iced teas.. mm-hmm, finger-licking good!

by the way, we'd made pork chops on the grill on monday.. and i can't believe how good they look here!

summer's here, so once the sun goes down and the breeze picks up, it's very pleasant out.. so there we were sitting out on the deck and just catching up. it's been a while, since we all last hung out.. prolly stretching back to New Year's Eve!

so talk ranged from varied topics, going from crazy 'stoned and drunk' stories in the past, to politics and why we refuse to have anything to do with it.. to a pretty intense debate on dreams, and how we respond to being in them. so the concept was, that you had two choices with your dreams.. either
you dream random, arbitrary dreams, revelling in the sheer unpredictability of them, but there's the chance that you won't remember them the next day, and there's also a chance that the dream would not be good always, and pretty horrific things could happen in them
or
in the dream, you know you're dreaming, and use that to free your mind and do whatever you wanted in the dream, knowing that you would wake up and it would all be a dream, but you would have had the chance to explore things you might never do when conscious
what would you choose?